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Author | Ai Xiaoyang
Laiyuan | I’m Ai Xiaoyang.
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I never expected that the milk tea couple who had been keeping a low profile would be hot searched for "showing off their wealth".
Some bloggers broke the news that Rene Liu spent 40 million yuan to buy a quadrangle in Beijing, which is now worth hundreds of millions. Milk tea is an invisible rich man in the entertainment circle.
Although the house doesn’t look like a quadrangle worth hundreds of millions from the photos, everyone is happy to hear the news of milk tea.
Because she is so low-key, so low-key that she has held a concert for more than half a year, and the tickets for each show have been exhausted, but she can’t get hot search, interview or variety show, and she hides in the crowd to live her own life.
Sure enough, she couldn’t stand this high-profile hot search, and she rushed out to refute rumors:
It is a bookstore jointly opened by my husband and friends a few years ago. The house is rented, only a few dozen square meters.
I did my homework.
This store was originally called Chunfeng Xixi Magazine, which sold magazines and coffee, and later sold books.
The spring breeze was the earliest place for Zhong Xiaojiang to give milk tea in Beijing.
Because she is used to working in a book bar, when she was in Taiwan Province, she often went to a hidden book bar in the East District of Taipei to deal with her work and emotions.
In recent years, she rarely lives in Beijing. This book bar may no longer have Zhong Xiaojiang’s shares, but milk tea is still rumored in Weibo, kindly.@ 京京京京京京The official micro, easy kindness, is very milk tea.
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Sharing the recent situation of Rene Liu with people around me, I found that many people knew nothing about her marriage, let alone that she had children.
Everyone’s information mostly stays in the bitter drama of milk tea and teacher Bobby Chen’s "love, stop at ceremony" and love without permission.
In fact, Rene Liu has been married for 12 years and his son is 8 years old.
At first, it was an unpopular marriage.
Zhong Xiaojiang, who is 10 years younger than milk tea, is a Beijinger and is said to be a good friend of Wang Xiaofei.
His real name is Zhong Shi, and he changed his name to Zhong Xiaojiang when he walked in the Jianghu. I wonder if he was influenced by Wang Xiaofei.
They got married less than half a year after their relationship was established, and Rene Liu’s way to test Zhong Xiaojiang was to take a long trip with him.
Rene Liu likes the novel Fortress Besieged.
In Fortress Besieged, Qian Lao said with the help of Zhao Xinmei that "travel is the best test of a person’s character".
Milk tea was 42 years old that year, and I met a suitable person at the age when I wanted to get married.
On August 8th, 2011, Rene Liu and Zhong Xiaojiang got married in Beijing Civil Affairs Bureau.
There was no public wedding ceremony, and the groom was so low-key that the whole network could not find clear photos;
It is relatively clear that it is Zhong Xiaojiang himself. One is the following photo.
The other is a reporter’s candid photo.
Zhong Xiaojiang likes photography and travel, and the photos are quite good.
It has been rumored on the Internet that Wang Xiaofei is the matchmaker between Rene Liu and Zhong Xiaojiang. In fact, the real matchmaker between them is director Teng Huatao.
Confirming the relationship in February and getting married in August, the efficiency of adults is high.
This marriage is not optimistic, on the one hand, because of the age difference and geographical difference;
On the other hand, at the beginning of marriage, Rene Liu put the ugly words first.
Do not do housework or be a full-time wife; Sleep in separate rooms and keep your own space; Third, whether or not to have children is up to Rene Liu.
"After becoming someone’s wife, I still need freedom and solitude, not to be your big momma, not to be a fertility machine; In marriage, I have to live my own life first and learn to live by myself before I can get along. "
Even as a female star, there are not many people who dare to put such ugly words ahead from the beginning.
In the context of East Asian culture, wives are often partners.
Most women are not qualified to ask too much in marriage. They are more like a brick or a screw of the family than the rear of the family.
Where it is needed, it is there, and the title of "my wife" comes from this.
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After the marriage, Rene Liu and her husband lived in separate rooms. They each had a study room. In order to avoid disturbing each other, they even set the study room in two opposite rooms to keep the maximum distance.
Many people don’t know that Rene Liu got married, because in appearance, she has always remained single, and even her mentality has not changed much.
The literary Rene Liu didn’t disappear because he got married and had children.
Rene Liu doesn’t agree that "marriage is a compromise". For her, marriage is not a compromise. She knows what love she wants.
I always suspect that milk tea does not show love, on the one hand, it is caused by personality, on the other hand, it is a true superstition that "show love and die quickly."
She has a very clear understanding, knowing that she has chosen a road that few people take. In order to minimize noise interference, she simply chooses not to say anything.
In 2015, Rene Liu published a collection of essays entitled "I Dare to Be Alone in Your Arms", most of which she completed during her pregnancy.
While waiting for the baby to be born, she began to reflect on the marriage problem-
Why can’t a happy wife sigh the bleak autumn?
Husband and wife must stick to everything and go in and out together.
Finally, it is concluded that the soliloquy of life itself is extremely important. Solitude is not a philosophy, but a way of life, and its other name is freedom.
Although "I Dare to Be Lonely in Your Arms" was written by Rene Liu after 60s, it hit the heart of the post-90s and post-00s perfectly in advance.
The older generation thinks that "separated marriage" is a problem everywhere. If you don’t sleep together every day, how can you have feelings?
Young people envy that if marriage can be like Rene Liu, who is afraid of getting married?
"Being alone is to enlarge yourself infinitely, while getting along with you is to shrink as much as possible to adapt to the vacant position of others."
When women become more and more fond of themselves, traditional marriage becomes more and more bound.
When we are fed more and more by love, it becomes more and more difficult for us to play the role of "wife-in-law". "Separated marriage" preserves ourselves to the greatest extent and makes everyone a protagonist.
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Aragaki Yui, the Japanese idol of herself, is also divorced.
She and her husband live in two houses in the same building after marriage. Because they get up at different times, they have separate breakfasts.
"We are both responsible for our respective areas of expertise, and we will do half of what we both hate and make clear what we have done to each other".
Some people may think that keeping too much self and saying ugly words in front of them is not enough emotional concentration.
But in any long-term relationship, rules are more important than feelings, and mutual comfort is more important than countless "I love you"-
Adult love is easier to last if it is light.
Li Ai, the host, also generously admitted in the program that she and her husband were "roommates" upstairs and downstairs.
These female stars who boldly admit to "separated marriage" are easily worried about their marital status by the public.
When Xiao S frequently makes hot searches, there is also a marketing number with the title "Rene Liu’s marriage is worse than Xiao S", saying that Xu Yajun just likes to go clubbing, and Rene Liu’s husband doesn’t sleep with her.
I really want to buy a copy of "I dare to be alone in your arms" and throw it in their faces.
"I dare to be alone in your arms" was published in 2015, which is regarded as milk tea indirectly reporting the marriage safety to everyone: I am fine, don’t read it.
On the wedding anniversary of August 8, 2020, Zhong Xiaojiang sent a "Happy Ninth Anniversary" in Weibo, with a picture of a very hidden milk tea and a son who looks very athletic.
After ten years of marriage, he sent another "10th anniversary, thank you for your tolerance".
And reply to netizens, saying that the marriage with Rene Liu was "sunny without wind and rain".
This Weibo was so popular that Zhong Xiaojiang quickly deleted it.
Under the lens of Zhong Xiaojiang, my son is a beautiful teenager who follows the waves.
My wife is a carefree big girl.
Both of them are very literary and artistic, and their love show is extremely obscure.
When the father of Milk Tea died, Zhong Xiaojiang wrote: "The sky in Taipei has your young smile".
In March of this year, some netizens met a family of milk tea in Baima Manor, Maldives, and went on vacation during the concert.
In the last song of Xi ‘an in April, Rene Liu sang "The Price of Love" by her teacher Zhang Aijia, "Let’s go, let’s go, one must learn to grow up by oneself".
This lyric was changed by her to "Let’s go, my husband is still waiting for me to go home". That kind of shyness is hard to believe that she is 54 years old.
If a woman insists on herself, she can really be a girl all her life.
Since the media these years, things that hit the face always happen, often a couple. You just wrote about their kindness and turned around and divorced.
It can only be said that no marriage in this world has been insured.
Therefore, happiness is the most important thing. Even if you get married, you should still put happiness and freedom in the first place and try your best to enjoy your own unique life.
Regarding "separated marriage", I saw the funniest comment on the Internet and the most praised comment was "separated marriage", but only if the husband is independent.
Teacher Li Yinhe said that with the increasing participation of women in social work and issues, although the marriage system will not die, the marriage form will definitely change.
In the past, marriage was "if it lasts forever, there will always be a person (woman) suffering". Nowadays, marriage is to be alone first, and then get along with each other. Everyone must learn to be better at themselves before they can understand how to get along harmoniously.
I wish you a happy marriage with milk tea, and thank you for a good start.
illumine[Like]+[Looking],May we all learn to get along with ourselves and live the life we like.
Author: Ai Xiaoyang. The solution of complex life, the addict of quality life, specializes in all kinds of unhappiness. Masterpiece: I’m just a very correct life. WeChat official account: I am Ai Xiaoyang (ID: qingchangaixiaoyang), and Weibo: There is an Ai Xiaoyang.
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